Monthly Archives: August 2010


I love reading!  The last 8 months I have read 46 books!  I know… still seems incredible to me.  But surprisingly I want to read and consume more.  Before this year you could say I was on a lifelong fast of reading books.  I would try to avoid them at all costs.

A daily commute to Salt Lake convinced me to start listening to Audio Books.  So technically I’m not “reading”, I’m listening.  I highly recommend it, when you’re like me and sitting down is a very difficult thing to do.

Feel free to recommend me any book.  I want this website to be a community area where we can share ideas on books.  The internet is an incredible tool for all of us to learn from the insights of others.  Please share your comments.

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RATING: 9.9 of 10.0

OVERVIEW: Designed to teach you to improve your overall happiness by improving your ability to communicate.


It is extremely appropriate to my personal life to start my Book Reviews blog with a book by Dale Carnegie.  Dale Carnegie is the son of the famous industrialist and philanthropist, Andrew Carnegie.  Andrew Carnegie may possibly have been the wealthiest man to ever live. 

I read the book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” last year.  This book opened my eyes to the importance of relationships and its role in a successful business, social, and family life.  I rank Carnegie’s book one step below canonized scripture.  If I had the influence, I would recommend this reading to every businessperson, high school student, and individual whose success relies on relationships.

I beg you to read this book over and over throughout your life.  I also encourage you to share it with as many people as you can.  This book, if applied appropriately, could be one of the best gifts you ever offer.




***”You can never win an argument.” 

·         Why?  Because “one convinced against his will is of the same opinion still.”

“Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn of him.”

·         Until you accept the fact that everyone has qualities that you need to learn, you will never have the humility sufficient to be a continual learner.

Persuasion: the ability to drive an eager desire.

·         The art of storytelling will get you far in life

A dog is the perfect example of a friend. The only animal that makes a living by being your friend

·         How do dogs do that?

Become genuinely interested in others and then you will gain friends

·         If you want to end a conversation, strictly talk about yourself

·         Encourage others to talk about themselves

·         Use open ended questions to help people talk about themselves

“A smile costs nothing but enriches those who receive it”

·         People are as happy as they make their minds up to be” President Abraham Lincoln 


·         I can’t stress how much power comes in hearing your name 

·         I recommend using someone’s name 3 times the when you’re first introduced to someone 

·         Never avoid a chance to use someone’s name 

Do you talk to customers on the phone?  Smile when you talk to them.

·         It is proven that smiling on the phone will improve the quality of a call

·         People can feel your happy when you smile

·         Try being upset and smiling at the same time

Admit you’re wrong emphatically

·         Express slowly and clearly that you’re wrong 

·         Admit your mistakes before anyone else can 

*Influencing People and Winning Friends requires “Yes, yes, yes”

·         When trying to convince or make a sale, first, ask 3 questions that you know they’ll say ‘YES’ to. 

·         Avoid all answers that will result in a ‘no’ 

·         When you’re on a streak of saying ‘yes’ you don’t want to stop 

*Let others see their irrational behavior by letting them talk and talk

·         This principle is so true, no one can sound smart if you let them talk long enough 

A good teacher teaches you and a great teacher helps you teach yourself

·         Anytime I learn something on my own I feel more desire to remember and follow it 

You must lather a man before you shave him

·         Translation: before you seek to criticize, seek to empathize. 

Please respond, if you’ve read the book or want to share your thoughts, insights, and anything that stands out to you.